God is Good. All the Time.

Hey everybody! Whew! What a wonderful whirlwind this week has ween...oops, I mean been :) I don't even know where to start! I think I've looked at our daughter a thousand times since Wednesday. She is so beautiful! I can't wait to show her off to all of you :) Thank you SO MUCH to all of you who have been so excited for us. The day we found out, my neighbor Amy brought over a balloon bouquet (pink...I love it!!!) and Carrie, with her own three African princes and princess, brought over pink cookies. I have been so blessed with the e-mails and blog comments. I would love to print them all off in a book for our daughter one day. We will see if that just is a good thought, or if it will actually come to fruition. I am very good at good thoughts :) Speaking of that, I think I made a promise I need to make good on--our daughter's name. Well, because she is not officially our daughter until we pass court, I cannot tell you here Ethiopian name, but I will tell you the other. As far as we know, unless we change our mind in the next several months, our daughter will be Selah Joy [Ethiopian name] Black. Isn't it perfect? You can tell us if you agree, if not, just do what your mom taught you and, well, you know :) The reason we selected two middle names is because we want her to have her Ethiopian name, and we wanted her to have our family tradition of biblical "J" middle names as well. Since Jezebel wasn't the nicest character in the Bible and Jael is a little too gory, we thought Joy was perfect. May our new daughter mark a transition in our family's life, filled with joy and closeness with our Savior. We can't wait for her to join us!!!

Speaking of joy....we had two HUGE blessings today. First, traveling families got home yesterday and two have already promised pictures of referred babies/children within the day. I can't tell you how many times I've already checked the computer since I read that. Second, we got a blessing that just about knocked our socks off.

Last night we got a text from the lead pastor at Crossroads asking for our remaining adoption expenses. Then, at church this morning, he had Karl get up and speak about our little one (I wish I could have shown pictures!) and what the plan was for the next couple of months. Pastor Marc went on to ask for the congregation's financial help and pledged $1000.00 from his publishing company personally. He said very eloquently that we cannot save the continent of Africa, but we can save this one child. Because of his generosity and desire to help, and the generosity of our church family, we are now $4000+ closer to having the adoption paid for!!! PRAISE THE LORD!!!!! When Karl and I started this journey, we thought we would be repaying the bank for several years. Now, that will not be the case. Again, PRAISE THE LORD!!!!

Thank you to all of you who have given so generously to us. In monetary ways, as well as with your prayers and words of encouragement and time and in other ways....we are blown away by the goodness of God shown through His people! We are also pumped because this giving to us personally will also allow us to give more generously to the Transition Home where referred America World children/babies go as well as the orphanages that America World helps support. Because of the worldwide food crisis, Ethiopia is in dire straits, and the orphanages and Transition Home are also having a shortage of essential items. We plan on filling two tubs full of donations, much of which will be formula, vitamins, and other requested items. We will keep you posted on this as the time grows closer.

Again, thanks for everything! I will try to get back to posting the "Hope Lives" study tomorrow and we'll just be a week behind. I'm sure you all understand a little lapse in the plan :)



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TODAY IS THE DAY!!!

Today at 11:10 we got our call from Duni with the news of our baby girl. I was walking out the door to pick up Kole from pre-K and almost didn't get the phone.

"Hello"
"Danielle, this is Duni. Congratulations. Today is the day!"

Duni went on to tell me her age and name and a few other details. After trying to work around a meeting with Karl, I hopped in the car with Owen and Brenna (the little girl I babysit twice a week) and went to get Kole. He was in shock when he stepped into the van and I told him. He kept saying, "No you didn't. No, mom, you DIDN'T. MOM, You didn't get the referral." I wasn't sure about his reaction so I asked him about it to which he responded, "I just wasn't ready. I didn't know it was coming today!" I think after SO many months of waiting, it just felt so unreal that today was actually the day!!!

Well, I got almost to Crossroads (app. 25 minutes away) and realized I needed to have Braden to share the family moment, so I turned around and went 20 minutes back to his school. Then, he had just gone out for recess, so we had to go find him there. Then, he didn't want to come until after recess (Does anyone see how much of the real world this is?!? I don't know why I always build scenarios up in my mind :)) So, FINALLY, we headed to Karl at around 12:15. After a stop through McDonalds drive-through, we got to the church. It then took about 15 minutes to figure out how to rig the video camera. FINALLY, at 1:30 (I'm not kidding you!!!!) all five of us sat down at Karl's computer. First, Owen accidently hit Braden in the face (Owen was reaching for the computer and I went to bat his hand away and it hit Braden would be the more accurate description). Braden starts bawling. Then, after we try to deal with this, I start to read the e-mail and just as I'm starting to click for the picture something happens and the ENTIRE E-MAIL disappears. No joke. We can't find it anywhere. We even went to Karl's e-mail to see if there was another copy sent to him. Nope. We search awhile longer and find it was mysteriously taken to another folder. Now it is about 1:40.

@ app. 2 hours and 30 minutes after getting the call, we see our little girl for the first time. She is so precious. She is so tiny. She is our little gift from God. We can't wait to let everyone meet her. Thank you for your prayers.

People always ask, "What now?" America World tells you to expect 6-8 weeks at this point for travel. This will happen if you pass court in Ethiopia the first time. This is a huge if. Many families do not, and there's a myriad of reasons from paperwork not being right to paperwork not being where it needs to be to someone taking a day off work. Who knows? If we don't pass the first time, usually you're scheduled for a new court date a month later. And then a month after that...and so on and so forth. But, we will be praying for a smooth process. Everything has been so smooth so far and we feel incredibly blessed. Please pray with us that we can bring this little one home in January. That is our heart's desire. As Kole said, "I wish we could just go get her today!!!"

Rejoicing......

Hope Lives...Week 2

So, it looks like everyone's life is like mine and we'll only be doing a once a week study. I mean, I'm really, really, REALLY hoping that all of us will be doing it more than once a week, but I'll only put a summary and questions on my blog once a week. Having said that, MAN! I wish I could write more about week one because all the stuff about "It's All About Me" and "I'm barely gettin' by" and "Dreadfully Busy" and the other lies we believe...GOOD STUFF!!! PLEASE read it...and take the time to reflect--if not on my site, in your own private time or with someone you love. Another change: I think instead of writing a summary, I'm just going to record quotes that moved me. She says things so well (as does the Bible!) and I would love to simply quote them verbatim and may add personal comments in italics under specific questions.

In week two, which is entitled "God is Not Silent" Amber looks at what the Bible has to say about our responsibility to the poor, the widows, and the orphans. Here are some quotes from the week that really spoke to me.

• [Talking about gleaning and tithing/Day 7] "But could this law of gleaning on top of tithing mean intentionally leaving aside a certain amount of my 'crop' for those in need, even if my taxes and tithe are already supporting social welfare? I'm challenged to think that taking care of those in need isn't just a government or church concern, by also my personal concern" (56).


• "If there is a poor man amoung [you]...do not be hardhearted or tightfisted toward your poor brother. Rather be openhanded and freely lend him whatever he needs...Give generously to him and do so without a grudging heart...Be openhanded toward your brothers and toward the poor and needy in your land" (Deuteronomy 15:7-11)


• "'The plunder from the poor is in your houses. What do you mean by crushing my people and grinding the faces of the poor?' declares the Lord, the Lord Almighty." (Isaiah 3:14)...God condemns those who 'grind the face of the poor.' In the next sentence, he condemns the women of Zion for their luxurious lifestyles, assumedly made possible by the oppression of the poor. It's very possible that the women of Zion knew little or nothing about the conditions of the workers who enabled their finery. They weren't in the fields. They were simply enjoying their wealth, probably without giving much thought to the workers--even if they knew just a little bit. But these women were condemned outright."!!! (59)


• "But I do have to question whether God implicates me in the oppression of workers when I purposely buy cheaper products from companies I know are exploiting the poor rather than buying those goods from companies that ensure fair payment of workers. The passage in Isaiah convinces me that God has a high standard for the choices I make, and I need to buy with my eyes open wide." (59)


• "I want my motivation to be compassion and love, not a desire to do something big." (62)


• "Helping those in need is central to following Christ. It is who he is, and therefore, who I am. To know God is irrevocably woven into loving others, and I'll never know God in his fullness without extending that kind of love. I know a man who is dedicated to serving the poor. I asked him why he does it, and he said, 'Serving the poor, I grow closer to God and see Jesus more clearly. It helps me see Jesus because I'm doing what he would be doing if he were there. I go about life in pretty routine ways--get up, eat, go to work--and think about Jesus from time to time. But when I'm working with the poor, Jesus is front and center in my mind. It's like I sense him to be more real and more close during those times. It slows you down. It catches you and makes you think about why you're doing what you're doing." (64)


• "When we're filled with the love of Christ, God will compel us each in a different way. The essential for me is to seek God, asking that I'll be filled with his love for the church. Then, I can ask him what exactly he wants me to do." (69)

Questions:

1. Spend time reflecting on what you treasure. What have you mistakenly treasured, and what would you like to treasure?

2. What was the most challenging truth you struggled through this week?

The idea of being implicated by what and where I buy REALLY impacted me. Just like the women of Zion, I have cared more about what is affordable to me, then the circumstances that made them that way. I had an epiphany, I believe, during this time that if something is unaffordable to me in order to buy it more "fairly," then I shouldn't buy it at all! I used to have the attitude that if I could buy something by going to certain stores, etc. then, by all means, I should get it! I don't think that's true anymore. I'm still trying to work this out, but I know I can't ignore it anymore...at least not if I want to continue growing and hearing from the Lord with the same/more openness. I am thinking of this a lot lately with fair trade (right now, coffee specifically.)

3. What can you do each day to ensure that you're viewing people in this world through Christ's eyes?

4. Learning about the social justice the Old Testament prescribes, do you see any injustice around you that you think God is calling you to speak out against?

5. Based on Isaiah 3:14-24, I John 3:17, and/or II Corinthians 8, is there an action or change you feel convicted to make?

(specifically fm. I John passage) I just don't feel like I interact enough with the poor--with others. And yet I am so busy. I need to use my wit and joy to build others--no matter who they are--up as I interact with them, instead of tearing them down. I need to more relational and less task. I need to see everyday as a time to serve--my kids, friends, neighbors, husband, people I meet on the street. Jesus, please, I desperately need to be more about You and less about me. Open the eyes of my heart...and change me where I need it.

6. Is there someone in your life to whom you feel God calling you to be Christ?

yes.

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Hope begins-Week 1.1

I guess since it's still Monday, November 3 I can say I made my promise about starting the book study today. We won't think about the fact that it's after 10 and some of you more responsible types are already in bed :) Let me preface this by saying I am always open to suggestions, and things may change as we go. I've been a part of book studies/clubs and even led them, but I've never been part of one via someone's blog, so I feel a little baffled by it. My plan is to do summarize/reflect/quote three times a week throughout the course of the five week study and then include questions that people can answer in the comments area. Feel free to comment on comments and let follow-up conversation happen there. Also, answer one or all or...whatever you want! That sounds like a good place to start, yeah?

"Hope Lives" challenges us as Christians to focus on becoming what God is calling us to be. This book demands that you interrupt your busy life and embark on a spiritual journey to know the poor through God's eyes, through his words...It is my greatest desire that this book will help you develop a deeper relationship with God and, in doing so, ignite a natural response and a passion to serve the poor as God directs" (Wes Stafford in the Foreword 5)

Week One: The Poverty of the Heart

"He has showed you, O man, what is good. And what does the Lord require of you? To act justly and to love mercy and to walk humbly with your God." -Micah 6:8

We have so much, don't we? No matter where we are today, we are not one of the 1.2 BILLION in the world living in extreme poverty on less than a dollar a day. Just think-if you bought this book, even if it was on amazon or some other such place, you spent potentially the equivalent of three months income for 1.2 billion humans. Doesn't that just blow your mind?!? For a book! For many, life is very hard...."and I don't know how to take it. I want to throw up my hands and accuse God or someone or something" (12). And yet here in America, even with the threat of economic crisis looming, we are experiencing a very different story. Comparatively, "we are thriving...we have more material wealth than any other generation in history....megacorps and megamalls and megachurches. My church buddies and I are thriving, too--we have our many church meetings, our building campaigns, our community outreaches playing Frisbee at the park with Starbucks afterward" (13).

"Is this pleasing to God? Is this his vision of what his world should look like?"

God said to the Israelites in Isaiah 58: "Is not this the kind of fasting I have chosen: to loose the chains of injustice and untie the cords of the yoke, to set the oppressed free and break every yoke? Is it not to share your food with the hungry and to provide the poor wanderer with shelter--when you see the naked, to clothe him, and not to turn away from your own flesh and blood?

Amber asks, "What does God want from me, from his people? What is true fasting, true religion...What if, like the Israelites, my spiritual service is a bit too tidy? a bit too focused on me? What if all this time I've been polishing myself up to exhibit spiritual excellence--like it's some precious jewel--when what God really wanted was something wholly different? Not to stay home perfecting myself, but to go out into the world" (16).

Questions

*You may also answer any of the questions throughout the summary/quotes.

1. What about Isaiah 58 challenges you?

2. Why are you reading this book? What interests you about it? What are you hoping for?

3. What do you believe God wants from you at this moment in time?

I'm excited!!! Thanks for doing this with me!

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Happy (!?!?) Nine Months of Waiting!

Happy nine months of waiting to us.

Happy nine months of waiting to us.

Happy nine months of waiting to u-us.

Happy nine months of waiting to us.

We're still hanging in there. Good post from my friend Karen on how things are going :) We do have a huge praise. Our homestudy officially expired Thursday and we thought we were going to have to pay $750.00 to get it renewed plus new paperwork, new doctor's appointments...you get the point. I was so bummed and overwhelmed thinking of doing it again! But then I got an amazing little e-mail from our social worker saying that the State of Indiana doesn't really concern itself with International adoptions as far as homestudy updates, so as long as we have our little girl by June when our USCIS paperwork expires, then we won't have to get a homestudy renewal!!!! Praise the Lord! Seriously. Thank you, Jesus!!!!

BTW: the Hope Lives book study will begin on my blog in two days. Not sure yet how it's going to work, but I'm excited to be going through such an amazing book together with some of you! It's not too late to buy the book (unless you don't believe in shopping on Sunday. Then, it actually is too late, but just go get the book on Monday. No one will even know :) )

Okay, must get my beauty sleep. The time changes during the night and when I wake up I'm going to be a year older...beauty sleep is becoming more and more of a priority :)

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